Scapegoating and Dealing with Narcissistic Traits

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Written By NIkki Eisenhauer

What many of us are dealing with is having grown up in heavily critical and negative households and circumstances and personalities and that leave us with low self worth and esteem. Innerchild work meets us in the psychological spots where we are stuck, stunted, and lost.

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