Empowered Resiliency, Victim Mentality, Inadequate Positivity

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Written By NIkki Eisenhauer

In this week's episode I confront and dismantle a popularized 'toxic positivity' message. I advocate for radical ownership and personal responsibility as the path to increased emotional freedom and peace. Also discuss the therapist and client relationship and responsibilities of each. For exclusive episodes visit our Patreon.

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